Saturday 13 February 2010

A fairly quiet half-term (or at least for part of it)

I'm down to one child till next Saturday (20th).  K has gone skiing with Explorers.  They left last night and will arrive in resort - Bad Kleinkircheim - some time around now (5pm).  I have my fingers very crossed that she manages to stay upright at all times and I don't get an emergency trip to Salzburg.  K is dyslexic and dyspraxic so the chance of her misinterpreting an instruction or just plain falling over her own shadow are reasonably high.  However you have to let go sometime, and the scout leaders are all fully aware of her uniqueness, so I'm doing my best not to worry.  No doubt she'll have a blast.

I'm taking D up to Nottingham this week.  We're going to visit family and have a big family lunch on Wednesday.  Why?  Well D turns 18 next Saturday (20th).  OMG where did the time go!!!!!!  In the blink of an eye my little boy went from this

 

to this



He doesn't want a party so we're giving him some money to go out with some of his friends.  I am getting OLD!

Harlie

Harlie is a sweet little girl who has so much going against her.  At birth she had only a 5% chance of surviving but she's still here, proving everyone wrong.  Her heart stopped during her latest surgery on Thursday but she was revived.  Please could you keep her in your thoughts.  Click on her name to read more about her.

Wednesday 10 February 2010

What do you buy.........

........ a young man about to turn 18!

D, my little boy, has a birthday a week on Saturday.  He doesn't know what he wants.  Or rather, the one thing he does want he knows he can't yet have.  He wants his own car which we are happy to buy him, but HE has to run it - pay the road tax, insurance, service, MOT, petrol, etc.  Seeing as he is at college full-time he doesn't have the money for that.  So we're all stumped.  He's not long bought himself a new phone; he's got an MP3 player, he has a PC, he has enough clothes - he's not a fashion junky; he doesn't want his bedroom decorating - it probably needs it but he's quite happy as it is; his hobbies are messing about on his PC and ten-pin bowling - and no he doesn't need a new ball.  Oh decisions, decisions.

We did consider a driving day at Thruxton but then decided that he probably needs another 2 - 3 years on-the-road experience to get the most from it.  We're giving him some money to go out with his friends - he doesn't want a party - and I'm taking him up to Nottingham to visit family and have lunch with them.

I should probably be counting my blessings that I have a teenager who doesn't have a wish-list a mile high, but I do wish he'd want something.

PS  As for me, I'm working hard.

Saturday 6 February 2010

MPs Expenses - or one rule for them........

Some years ago, when we were living in Nottingham, A got a job in Hastings.  The money wasn't to be sniffed at and the bungalow we found to rent was none too shabby either.  He asked the tax office if he could claim the rent back as a legitimate business expense and was told that it would be ok.  So we did.  We all lived there as a family (not that it would make any difference).

Several months later the tax office decided that claiming back this rent was NOT OK and they'd like us to pay the tax on what we'd claimed back from our business and they wanted it NOW.  I don't know about you but suddenly laying our hands on about £2K just like that was impossible.  The tax office begrudgingly gave us 3 months to pay it.  We were understandably upset but managed to do so.

We had to rent somewhere so that A could carry out his work.  He was then, and still is, an IT contractor so, to all intents and purposes, employed himself.  So we ended up paying a mortgage on our property back home - we didn't want to rent it out as it gave us somewhere to stay on our regular trips back to visit family and friends - and rent on this other property, AND two sets of bills - all out of our personal money.  None of it was claimable. 

So tell me, why should our MPs be able to get all expenses paid for their second homes?  We had to have a base for work-purposes 200 miles from our current house, yet WE had to fund it ourselves.  MPs don't need some flash pad in a posh area of London.  Westminster should build their own hotel with 600+ identical flats in there.  That should keep things down a bit.

And, yes, I think those 4 MPs/Lords members should be prosecuted.  If something feels morally wrong then, despite someone saying it's OK, you really shouldn't do it.  Their defence, that the Expenses Office approved them, is really no defence.  After all, we didn't let all those SS guards from the concentration camps use that sort of thing as a defence in their trials, did we.

Tuesday 2 February 2010

Getting on with things

Just a quick post to let all my loyal followers - there's more than two of you, right? - know that I'm still alive.  I've not fallen out with anyone; it's just the job agency I'm registered with (for temping) has suddenly decided I'm a useful asset.  Therefore what starts out as a fairly low key week rapidly turns into a mad dash between contracts.

I love it!  So if I'm overdue a visit to you I apologise profusely.  You're on my list of things to do, honest.  Alongside revise for up and coming AAT exams, get stuck into some of the tedious but essential NVQ stuff associated with this course, give my CV the WOW!!! factor, housework (again, tedious but essential), sorting out who owes what at the home ed group (and finding the time to remind them - work keeps getting in the way), and sorting out the last few items of clothing for K's half-term ski trip to Austria with Explorers.  And if I'm really lucky I might find time to move this blog to Wordpress.  It takes a lot of setting up - for technonumpty me - but the usability is a lot of fun.  It took me all afternoon (at the weekend) to get the Running From Trouble blog set up, and 10 seconds to copy across all the posts from the blogspot version.

So if you see a demented woman, running between Fareham and Whiteley with a manic look in her eyes, it'll be me.

PS  Jill, the jacket is great!  Perfect image of the business woman.

Random mutterings on whatever takes my fancy. I used to Home Educate but my little angels are at college now so I'm 'redundant'. I'm just writing about everyday stuff. It's mainly light-hearted but sometimes serious. No offence is ever intended.